While I agree that you and your DH have done a lot for her, I think her father should be the one to make the decision on what he wants to give her. She is his child by blood and ultimately should have more of an opinion on what he should give his daughter as a wedding present. You don't want the blame to fall on you if your decision causes a rift in their relationship (which it shouldn't but people get funny about things)
Are there other siblings? If there are, I agree with kiwi that you should give whatever you plan on giving what you have given/plan on giving other siblings.
That said, personally I think of she hasn't asked for anything, I may just offer to do something small (brunch for the wedding party) and give her a small gift.



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