Quote Originally Posted by Jiffer View Post
I wouldn't make plans to ride solo with any guy if I had a serious boyfriend (in my case, I have a serious husband!). So regardless of whether he's hitting on you or not, I'd tell him you'd love to do a group ride with him, but not alone. If he laughs and says it's "just a ride" and he's not interested beyond that, I'd still stick to my guns and say I don't ride alone with guys unless they're "my guy". Same reason I wouldn't do just about anything alone with another guy ... go to lunch, etc.
I guess the big question, redhodie is: would this guy still ask you if you were with your BF in the LBS?

Jiffer's, tulip's or Zen's response should help.
If you and BF already knew the guy and by coincidence he and your cycling routes coincided along the way, then riding together for a piece..and bye, bye.

All the men that I know who cycle and who I've cycled with, are guys that my partner knows already and with whom he does alot of cycling advocacy work or guys I knew from my jobs who cycle ..outside of me but talk alot about cycling.

It's flattering to have attention of other cycling men, outside of dearie, but after in short time, they're just trees and shrubs (to me).