Quote Originally Posted by lph View Post
Wha..? I have male friends I ride with occasionally that are faster than me and train with faster guys. But I ride fast enough, and they enjoy my company. Occasionally I ride with people slower than I am, both male and female, because I enjoy riding my bike more than I enjoy hammering as fast as I can all the time.

He may be hitting on her, but I don't see why this is obvious. Sometimes people just like each other.
So does Silver...but the "riding relationship" didn't evolve out of a dating conquest...and my guess is that your "riding relationships" didn't either. Silver is fast enough that they refer to her as one of the guys...and I know the married guys that she rides with