I have lurked here a very long time and feel envious of all you. You seem so happy and settled.

I am going thru a divorce (my choice) after a long marriage. It is all I can do to get on my bike. I have kids, who keep me going and bring me sunshine.

My spouse is not at all being cooperative and is threatening me with everything possible. At the same time he doesn't want me to divorce him. But get this, he is dating!!

Help