I’ve been saying forever: you are the master of your own destiny. If you’re unhappy about something, DO something and stop whining. You’re allowed to feel some pity and the “why me” and life is not fair. NO life is not fair. We all know it. But don’t take forever to get out of it and don’t blame other people forever. No one else can do this for you. You have to take the necessary steps and life will follow its course. True, sometimes it is harder (when a serious illness like cancer get in your way). But for the most part, when a door closes, another one will open. Always keep all your options opened!

My home is my paradise. Most of the time anyway. I would not mind being glued at home for a long time. lol

Perfect husband (although at times I tell him I'd trade him when things don't go my way and he says I'm not nice as he would never ever do this. hihi). We share a lot of the same activities and goals and if not, we complement each other in our strengths and weaknesses (no choice after over 30 years right! we must be doing something right hihi). Sure, not all is pink all the time, but for the most part, we are never bored or unhappy together.

Good pets – for the most part. Although it can get rough with 3 cats and 3 dogs as there is always one of them with health issues or behavior problems. Hihi

So between hubby and my pets my life is great. I don't need more to be happy. Money is nice but not a top priority. I could live with less and still be happy. Can't say the same about hubby and this is why we're at this point in our lives. He likes his big toys. I could go with less but it is what it is.

Work and home is so busy I don't have time for negative energy. I "deleted" those (including immediate family) in my life that were not bringing me anything but problems or complaining all the time. I don't need that. Go whine to someone else.

Overall, I'm a lot like you Pax. If I am not singing and dancing (note: terrible at those 2) it's because I'm sick. Hubby hates it as he said: when you are quiet or not planning anything it is scary. Hahaha

Life is short. And like Marilyn Monroe said: “So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.”