Dear Mom,
Please take note. After this weekend it really is time for you to come get Dad and take him off to go dancing in the sky. The entire family, kids, grandkids, great grandkids will be here to celebrate Dad's 88th birthday. As everyone will have a chance to visit and wish him well perhaps your spirit can take that into consideration? His "quality of life" on this planet is pretty low and me thinks he would much rather be with you dancing and enjoying whatever else you are up to. Love Your Daughter who has really, really filled your request to take care of him.