(((((Trek)))))
I don't think you'll be THE oldest.
DH is really sensitive about not having been to college. I think people like me who come from a place where like everyone we knew went to college, don't necessarily understand that sensitivity. I surely didn't, and I still inadvertently say the wrong thing around DH sometimes.
Even though I grew up around my mom - who dropped out after two years to get married and start a family, and for almost two decades dreamed about being in college, until she finally joined Teacher Corps and finished her degree at I think 37.
Speed comes from what you put behind you. - Judi Ketteler