
Originally Posted by
BodhiTree
We didn't look "bad" from the outside.
I try very hard as an adult not to judge. Sometimes I see things that get me angry and seem unfair. "Why do they get all this help from the government, while we got so little and had to rely on friends and charity?" "Why am I paying so much in taxes while those people get free stuff I can't afford myself?"
1. Life isn't fair.
2. Sometimes what looks ok from the outside actually sucks from the inside.
Balance those two out for yourself. If you are truly made miserable over a free-lunch child riding in an SUV to school, report it. If it's no skin off your nose, let it go.
Life is too short to waste your time carrying anger.

Originally Posted by
PamNY
Wise advice.
Goldfinch, I agree about the term "illegitimate."
Yes. Ditto to all of that.
"My predominant feeling is one of gratitude. I have loved and been loved;I have been given much and I have given something in return...Above all, I have been a sentient being, a thinking animal, on this beautiful planet, and that in itself has been an enormous privilege and an adventure." O. Sacks