Self-inflicted guilt

[Irulan]

I do get the idea of letting go of things that no longer apply to our lives...but unfortunately, in both of these cases, that's not entirely the situation. Though, we do both have more responsibilities at work, so the farm is getting to be a bigger burden than it used to be. I could certainly frame it that way in my head. That's another good point.

Irulan - good mantras! I'll try it!

I don't mean letting go of ideas that mean something. I mean letting go of the urge to have negative internal talk about it.