I have to second what everyone else here has said about making sure that you have your rides and he has his. Separately so that you can both get what you want out of riding.

But here are a few fun ways that my DBF (who is much stronger than I am) and I have found compromise. He will often go out with the hammer heads for 1 or 2 hours, then we meet somewhere and ride together at what would be a recovery pace for him and a decent, but not terribly difficult ride for me. We also go out on rides with some longer hills and he will go up the hills hard, then come back down to hook back up with me and we ride up the rest of the hill together at a chilly chill pace. As long as he goes really hard on the hills, he feels like he's had a great interval workout and yet we're riding together a lot. When we hit the flats, he pulls me at a pace where I can barely hang onto his wheel. This is one of my favorite games because I work really hard, with great encouragement and support from him. The moment he starts to drop me, I whistle to let him know I'm off his wheel. Then he backs off and lets me draft at a much easier pace until I am recovered, then we do it again.

There are ways to let him get what he wants and for you two to still hang together. And there's no shame in using his strength to your advantage. On group rides my DBF often acts like my domestique, bridging me up to the group if I get dropped for example.

I hope that helps some.