Geez, I can get enough opinions from home. THANKS. I find differing opinions gives me many options to think about. Can't we all get along?

My bike is my savior. I ride and ride, when it is cold I ride inside. POUNDING each pedal with fierceness. Outside I look for the meanest hill and talk myself up the hill. I worry cuz he won't pay bills and threatens to take everything from me. Here in CA community property is the rule. It just means that right now things are really tough.

It is rainy/cold outside so no ride today or tomorrow. If anyone knows of a few good websites or chat groups I would appreciate it.

I know that you all have the best intentions in mind, and I love and appreciate it. Am flattered at the attention. HUG to all of you back!