Quote Originally Posted by Honeypie
10 years on/off of marriage and individual counseling. Restraining order for him, anger management, police cars. ...

I am done, the day I filed, my chest pains, insomnia and headaches stopped. How much do you take from someone?.
I also filed for a restraining order - for stalking after I filed for divorce. I totally understand the relief afterwards. Mine came after the divorce was finalized. I received my papers on Valentine's Day of all days. Poetic, isn't it? That was many years ago and I don't regret my decision to put an end to my misery one bit. You'll be much better of now. You can gain back self-confidence and you'll be amazed at what you can accomplish when you don't have someone that is obsessive and abusive (psychologically in my case) keeping you down.