Quote Originally Posted by Honeypie
You all have my best interest in mind, even though you have differing views. I appreciate it believe me.

10 years on/off of marriage and individual counseling. Restraining order for him, anger management, police cars. Kids are older in HS. They don't want to live with him. He never went to their games, programs, took them to doctor. I worked the entire marriage and went to school at night, did all the house work, yard work, painted the house. I was not allowed to talk on the phone, make money decisions, even go shopping alone. We did seperate for 2 years, I took him back, the cops were at my door within a few days.

I am done, the day I filed, my chest pains, insomnia and headaches stopped. How much do you take from someone?.
'Nuf said. Git while the gittin' is good. Don't look back. Make sure you have lots of support - family, friends, co-workers etc.
Make sure you're safe. I worry about that alot. One wonderful mother of twins I took care of was murdered by her husband because he thought she was having an affair. BTW, she was not. How would a person squeeze an affair into the day with twin 11 month old babies anyway?