Quote Originally Posted by TrekTheKaty View Post
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I'm not good at confrontations, but if I wanted to stay in the group, I'd probably say something off-handed like, "I won't critique your ride, if you don't critique mine (insert smile)." Leave her thinking. Is everyone perfect all the time?
Great advice there (although I have to confess that I struggle to be civil to people like the woman you have described).

In the spirit of giving advice that I'd struggle to take myself, ask yourself the three question - will this matter in three minutes, three hours, three days?

And walk away from her shaking your head slightly for effect.