((((Marni)))))

I'd tell my sisters PDQ. (in my case, it's my best friend who told me all her breast stuff every moment... cuz I'dve been really mad if she hadn't told me)

Imagine if one of your sisters was going through this, and was afraid to tell you?

Telling them now fulfills your promise you made to each other, and lets them get over the emotional hump before you really need them to be strong and steady helping you before and after the mastectomy.

Make the plans now. (Who is going to stay with your family to help while you are in the hospital? Who is going to stay with you at the hospital? Who is going to stay with you and help once you get home?) Then everyone is ready and has their ducks in a row, so it all goes smoothly.

And you can do the ride without fretting...

(((((((Big Hugs!!!!)))))))