Oh I hear you! I am such a loner. Married, divorced, but I think the marriage lasted as long as it did because we did nothing together, so it was just the kids and me and I was perfectly happy with that. After divorce a long distance relationship for 6 years, and I was content with sporadic contact. I told him that if we were ever lived in the same town I would probably have to have my own place.

I read "Party of One: The Loner's Manifesto" a few years ago, and I feel so much better about it. I highly recommend reading it. The book addresses marriage, friendship, and lots of other things from someone who understands.

http://www.amazon.com/Party-One-Mani...9841812&sr=8-1