Jeepers, Catriona I hope your friend breaks off with this guy. It's just so wrong.

I can see the other side where some women are incredibly picky. One good friend who ..is in her early '70's, knows she's a neat freak. And she knows it probably affected her status...as someone who remains single.

Now, dearie is actually neat and organized against slobby me. It's a good thing we don't have young children living with us. It wouldn't be a great situation. So we have our corners of organization and mess. And common areas of relative neatness.

I believe he would be way more freakishly neat...but having had 2 children earlier in his life in his previous marriage, probably tempered this tendency big time plus makes him abit more flexible how he views the world.

We're both first-borns in our respective families...which is why we each have independent tendencies.