Amateur Bike Racer w/non biking spouse

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Irulan - I'm completely open to that because I do care about the relationship immensely. I wouldn't want to walk away w/o feeling as though I'd simply quit rather than tried to work things out. A compromise of some sort seems like the right thing but figuring out the how/why of that, doesn't feel so obvious.

That's why you find a good professional to help you guys sort these things out. A good marriage counselor help you ( plural you) to look beyond the obvious. Good luck.

Now, finding a really good marriage counselor, that is a whole different thread...