thanks... I feel some better now that we're both HOME and I've been able to tell him what's been upsetting me for the past three weeks...

but the bottom line is we need to define where the boundaries are with our parents, which is not easy when they're in poor health and honestly may not live that much longer. I don't know what the solution is.

How do you balance your marriages with the needs of your extended families - especially when there's a long physical distance? Anyone have any tips?