Quote Originally Posted by Tuckervill View Post
RED FLAG! RED FLAG! RED FLAG!

You need to get AWAY from her as fast as possible, try not to be the "one" she screws over her fiancee with. No matter what's going on with her feelings, she is UNAVAILABLE. You need to face that fact, and commit to not speaking with her at all forever if that's what it takes.

Her behavior is reprehensible and her fiancee would be alarmed if he knew this. That is the test of whether her behavior is acceptable. If she wouldn't tell him the truth about her emotional outbursts, she is hiding things from him, and that is no way to begin a marriage. That means she is not committed--but that doesn't matter to YOU.

Put yourself in his shoes. Do not talk to her again, no matter how tempting and soothing it is to your feelings.

Also in the BTDT camp,

Karen
+ 1000!

Wise words!