Boy I wish I had time to log onto here more often than I do just to see what all the hype was about with deleted comments. I always miss the good stuff.

BUT I just want to say to CELERY - we all have someone in our past that makes us ponder the what if's. That's just a reality of love/lust/youth/stupidity.

What the bottom line is that you are no longer with them for a reason. Whether or not you think it was a good reason is irrelevant. Trying to change that path now will only kill the good memories you have left. And can actually make the two of you end up hating each other.

Let it go, Louie. If you REALLY love her, let her go find her happiness with someone else. Your male ego can handle it. I promise.