Hi celerystalksme,

take heart to what KSH had to say.

And remember too that our memory is very selective. Whether you like it not, you will forget the bad experience or events and only remember the good and enjoyable experience. Sure you'll still remember the bad, but time will temper it so it wont be so bad.

You decided with your head to end it. So use your head again and move on. Don't let your heart get in the way of her life and her fiance.

Let memories be memories. And you need to move on too. Find yourself new love.

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Well just saw your post. Okay so you made a dumb move. Don't make another really dumb move and break her engagement to the "man of her dreams". You don't need to put a wedge between her and her fiance. A question mark in their relationship.

You need to let go. and really mean LET GO!! You need to find yourself a new GF. Do something that will take your mind off of her.