Girls, I need your help! Emergency...

[celerystalksme]

Just read all the posts.
No offense, but the responses are telling you "no" don't go there.
But you really wanted to hear "yes" (at least I get that by your 2 replies to the responses)--and that is not what you are hearing.
So you might have to go w/ your gut and what you want to do. Not that I would encourage it. But I am not sure you wanted advice as much as support to "go for it" and meet up and share your feelings.
So you have to make the decision--and whatever that is you cannot later go "would of, could of, should of". It is what it is.
Good luck to you and your ex--whatever you decide.

oh yeah...i definitely wanted to hear 'yeah, let her know' type of response. not that it's the correct answer...and not that i would be 100% of my course of action if i got that sort of feedback. but at least i'd know i'm not totally retarded for wanting to say and do things that i should have done years back.

right now...i just feel retarded for wanting to...be selfish and just let it all out.