Quote Originally Posted by redrhodie View Post
I think I just thought of the perfect solution. I'm going to make a hair appointment for bf with his sister. Then, I can say your sister gave my bf a great haircut! next time I see him. That'll work, and no one feels weird.
red: This is a very good solution; don't call him, prepare for getting the message across indirectly and softly. It's rare, but Zen and I agree

Frankly, I'm surprised at the amount of bad advice on here:

- If you're in a committed relationship and you think this guy if pursuing you, no contact is appropriate.
- If you think he's interested in you, then don't assume he's really interested in just riding and that a subsequent, more uncomfortable, situation won't arise
- If you think he's pursuing you and you want to ride with him...and you're in a committed relationship - then it's time to reevaluate your commitment to the existing relationship 'cause you're throwing the future of your relationship into the fickle hands of fate instead of on the foundation of your own firm resolve.

Just MHO