Quote Originally Posted by redrhodie View Post

I think it's unlikely either of you will get much sleep

agreed, I agree that premartial counceling would be good... but it's not the time yet. I think sometimes I worry about this kind of stuff because I dont have an older sibling, and my mother is sick, so I can't ask her. I sometimes feel left out for the vultures for all of this new stage of life stuff because I don't have anyone who has done this that I feel comfortable asking.

I know that I am a worrier, but it's the planning engineering side of me that wants it all to be in a nice and neat line....

Thank you for any advice given....

JP