I've had people make snarky comments about their own weight in front of me. A tall, thin, very fit friend and a couple of very thin, very fit women she knows better than I, went on and on about their to pregnancy weights at a moms-only get together at her house once. "When I was nine months pregnant with S___, I was close to 200 pounds. I was such a cow!"

And there I sat at the end of the table, not pregnant, topping out at 250-something...it was uncomfortable. I didn't say anything and the conversation turned to something else. I find the thinnest people talk the most about weight. Usually their own, to which I usually look them in the eye and say, "Seriously?" I think it's all relative, but sometimes I wish I could strap a 100-pound fat suit on them and let them see what it's really like to be obese.

The only people who make snarky comments about other people's weight in front of me are kids, and then I usually ask them how they'd feel if someone teased them about their appearance.

Roxy