kept my name, and no regrets on that. I feel it was the name I was born with and meant to have.

I do get the periodic card addressed to me w/husband's last name. I notice, but don't let it bother me much.

since we are having #1 this yr, he or she will get the husband's last name, and I'll be fine with being called the O... family. hope it won't be too much of a pain on the kid forms etc.