Quote Originally Posted by tulip View Post
I'm not obsessed about how people perceive me; it's more about how I perceive me. It has to do with caring for myself.
Great statement, and one that describes my feelings on appearance. I certainly don't qualify as high-maintenance when it comes to appearance, but I feel better when my make up and hair look good, or I'm wearing that special outfit that makes me feel confident. Our office dress code is very casual, jeans and sneakers for most staff, and I'll still go business casual/dress when my job duties that day permit or require it, just for the self-esteem boost that it gives me.

FWIW, I feel more "hot" at almost-30 than I ever did at 18 or 20. I'm fitter (thanks to cycling), more outspoken and self-assured, and finally have a clue about cosmetics and hairstyles. I can't wait to see what 40 brings!