Your bars will move closer to you if you install a stem with a steeper angle. Shouldn't cost you a fortune (from 40$) and I hope this does the trick (unless the bike is hopelessly too big for you). A longer stem will do the opposite.
I don't quite understand why you had the saddle moved back. This does not help IMHO. In addition you mess with the knee position over the pedal axle.
As always, pictures would help.