You can ask how you can forgive yourself for insensitivity but only half the time. The other half you have to ask how you can forgive him for not communicating, for being too sensitive, for letting you carry the entire weight of his happiness without your knowledge.


Putting blame squarely on your shoulders when two share the burden is hardly fair to either of you.


Whatever happens, learn from this. Think about if, how and what you need to do for a little bending but don't think you need to bend to the breaking point. That's unreasonable.


Hope things work out for you. Just remember, sometimes things are working out even when you think they aren't.