
Originally Posted by
chicago
I hate myself...
Please do not hate yourself
Separate "you" from the relationship. I personally think it's OK to mourn the loss and hope that there's redemption...but separate yourself from the situation and don't hate "you". None of us is perfect, none of us controls another's feelings. There's no redemption possible if you beat yourself up. It's this point forward that you can control at this point.
I know this is a very difficult time and it sounds like one of regret. I hope you feel better soon.
If you don't grow where you're planted, you'll never BLOOM - Will Rogers