Quote Originally Posted by SouthernBelle View Post
Well, I do make more decisions than my cat.
LOL. I'd agree with that statement, but sadly, my cats boss me around quite a bit!

Ideally, I'd like to me in a partnership/marriage where decisions were made jointly. My father has shielded my mom (and she has, for whatever reason, consented to this arrangement) from financial decisions. She's never really worked outside the home and really had very little understanding of many practical things.

I'm not my mother's daughter in that sense. I'm in a relationship with someone right now who is very responsible financially. If (and this is just an "if") we were to get married, I would anticipate that we'd make joint financial decisions. We're both cut from the same mold as "savers" versus "spenders."