Nice thread. Our daughter does very well in school, near the top of her class if not the best. That said my wife and I have more education then most and our dearest goal is that she continues to love school. To achieve this we work with teachers, the principle, etc... to keep her challenged in the classroom, but this also includes friends and peers (very important), and extra curricular activities (music, sports, clubs).

I agree ask your son, to much stress so young doesn't really help.