Quote Originally Posted by CycleChic06 View Post
T I've discussed it with mutual friends and none of us know how to help her. Like you all said, she has got to want to help herself.
the best way to help her is to help yourself by getting extremely educated about alcoholism, and by seeking support from others who have drinkers in their lives. You might look into al-anon, it's the sister 12 step program to AA that is specifically for friends and loved ones of alcoholics.

http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/english.html