Re the date, I think there are times you just know. We did. I didn't even believe in just "knowing"! I think there's a difference, too, between meeting someone and immediately eloping and meeting someone and working toward a common goal.

There are tons of ways to lessen the costs of a wedding We actually got married on a restored 1930's ferry. Instead of a wedding cake, we had gourmet cupcakes...instead of champagne, we toasted tequila (er, champagne would've been cheaper actually!). We had a harpist for the ceremony/early reception then we made CD's for dancing and socializing. I am sure you will have so much fun looking around and enjoy the food/frosting tasting

I really can't wait to see a picture of your ring!!!