What I pick up on, perhaps he's freaking out that you might be getting in shape and that, for some reason, bring up abandonment crap for him. Going out and doing things without him can trigger the same kind of thing Being a guy of course he probably doesn't do emotions very well, so he may not even know it.
Perhaps it's time to work with a professional to learn how to communicate better about what is REALLY going on. Nothing wrong with counseling, it's help my marriage immensely.
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07-13-2009, 03:52 PM #14
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