I am not going to start an argument here. Really.
But, out in the real world, there are 2 very nice, well adjusted young men in their 20's.
They are mine. They were in various kinds of day care starting at age 6 weeks for the youngest (OK, that was part time, with dad doing the rest for the first year) and four months.
If you really want my opinion, most people don't know how to be parents and *that* is the problem.