Dear Mimitabby,

I have thought a number of times that you are one of the kindest, warmest, nicest people I've met recently. I have thought that when we've met in person and I often think it when I read your posts. I am sorry that your sister is not able to see through her own stuff to realize what a good-hearted soul you are. I'm glad the rest of us know it, though.

PS I have a difficult sister too, who does similar stuff to me. You have my total sympathy, believe me.