Quote Originally Posted by mimitabby View Post
I am torn between wanting to fix everything and stay on good terms with both of them. I really hate to remasticate old prune pits.
what should i do?
How about telling them both that for whatever reason, the old garbage is fouling the air and needs to be cleaned out- therefore, if they BOTH write a simple apology note or phone call to the other....this only works if nobody is allowed to try to tell the other that they were wrong, or why they were upset, or start bringing up the whole scenario again.
Just a simple non-judgemental apology and move forward: "I'm sorry that I may have said or done things to upset you. Can we start over?" If you can get them on the phone and make them each read out that sentance (and nothing more), perhaps they can both start fresh.
The problem persists when one person continues to try to prove the other one wrong. It's old trash that needs to be thrown out already.