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It bothers me when people say, "I don't care," when you're asking them for their input. Example:
1st person: Do you want to go to the beach or the mountains?
2nd person: I don't care.
To me, that implies lack of interest. Instead, I wish they would say, "Either one is fine with me."
Silly, but it bugs me.
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06-08-2007, 12:43 PM #1
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The "hated words" thread
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We have the "favorite words" thread so I thought I'd start the opposite. In another forum, I asked for a comparison of brake calipers - specifically how well do the calipers stay in adjustment.
When I asked one of the responders to clarify his answer, he said "it's possible to overthink this." Grrrrrrrrrr! The word "overthink" is overused. It just raises my hackles. I find it arrogant and perhaps chauvinistic. I generally try to evaluate my initial response to perceived chauvinism but in this case it also seems that I never hear a man use that word to another man. I've decided that users of it are either arrogant (you can't possibility be as smart as they are) or they are unwilling to admit that they can't explain their answer logically.
I also dislike it when someone says "no biggie" instead of a simple "you're welcome" or "happy to help." It conveys to me that the person doesn't understand your appreciation of their actions. Maybe I'm just turning into an old fuddy-duddy on that one. Sometimes "thank you" and "you're welcome" can be the most powerful words in a relationship.
The "overthink" poster also had overused his keyboard's shift key and broken it because he had underused capitals.
Gripe, gripe, gripe. Do you all have words that just set your teeth on edge?Last edited by SadieKate; 06-08-2007 at 01:10 PM.
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06-08-2007, 12:51 PM #2
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fides quaerens intellectum (faith seeking understanding) - St. Anselm of Canterbury
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06-08-2007, 12:57 PM #3
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If you don't care, don't be whining later.
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06-08-2007, 12:59 PM #4
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Exactly!!
fides quaerens intellectum (faith seeking understanding) - St. Anselm of Canterbury
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06-08-2007, 01:01 PM #5
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"Irregardless"
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06-08-2007, 01:01 PM #6
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caring
I really and truly dislike the word caring when it used in this way
"She's such a caring person"
It feels condescending and creepy and ingenuine...
LIke the "have a nice day" NZ seems to have adopted from American movies and the golden arches.
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06-08-2007, 01:02 PM #7
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Can't
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06-08-2007, 01:02 PM #8
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That is my entire family in a nutshell.
Originally Posted by slinkedog
A whole gang of noncommittal people. Drives me crazy, I now demand "Make a decision!" when I get the "I don't care".
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06-08-2007, 01:03 PM #9
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I hate this too. there's a guy here who is supposed to be smart Originally Posted by Regina
and he says it all the time. Drives me NUTS!
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06-08-2007, 01:03 PM #10
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"Nitty gritty." Worked with someone who used that phrase constantly.
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06-08-2007, 01:04 PM #11
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My boss uses "irregardless" all the time. I've told him it's not even a word! Kind of gets on my nerves because he's not an uneducated man. LOL!
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06-08-2007, 01:04 PM #12
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Sounds like a lot of guys I've dated Originally Posted by snapdragen
That is my entire family in a nutshell. A whole gang of noncommittal people. Drives me crazy, I now demand "Make a decision!" when I get the "I don't care".
Whatever and Like. Valley girl days are gone people...Dar
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06-08-2007, 01:05 PM #13
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Here's one - it's more of a phrase, and the way it's used drives me crazy.
I work with a woman who uses "and then I turn around and" when she is talking. For instance:
"Snap prints the insurance claims, and then I turn around and mail them."
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06-08-2007, 01:05 PM #14
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LOL! Lots of us must have been posting at the same time! Originally Posted by Regina
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06-08-2007, 01:07 PM #15
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Phoebe Dinsmore: [giving Lina diction lessons] Repeat after me - Tah, Tey, Tee, Toe, Too. Originally Posted by mimitabby
Lina Lamont: Tah, Tey, Tye, Tow, Tyo.
Phoebe Dinsmore: No, no, no Miss Lamont, Round tones, round tones. Now, let me hear you read your line.
Lina Lamont: And I cayn't stand'im.
Phoebe Dinsmore: And I can't stand him.
Lina Lamont: And I cayn't stand'im.
Phoebe Dinsmore: Can't.
Lina Lamont: Cayn't.
Phoebe Dinsmore: Caaaan't
Lina Lamont: Cayyyyn't
Jean Hagen was so good in this role. "I cayn't stand'it" has become a standard joke line in our family.Frends know gud humors when dey is hear it. ~ Da Crockydiles of ZZE.
