Welcome to the board Cari. There's a thread under the open titled "getting to know you". gives you a chance to learn more about us than our mothers know - and tell us more about you! As for the Cindy - quite a few women here are doing that (of which I'm not one - yet!). I'm betting they can help you out and/or ride with you depending on your location.
and congrats on the new bike - give hubby a hug and a kiss from me for being such an awesome guy!
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand, strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming: "Yeah Baby! What a Ride!"