Thanks so much for the responses. It's like we've had babies or something. Taking photos, fawning over them....Mostly they're getting used to each other and to us. They were not in a group "cattery" room together, so they had never known each other until living here. Initially we've set them each up in their own room and they were allowed to get used to us in their own "safe spaces" for a day or so. Then when it seemed that they were both relaxed, we let each one out of it's room to check out most of the rest of the house (we did this one at a time). Finally we allowed them to meet. Mila walked right up to Violet as if to say "Hi. My name is Mila. I like you!", however Violet was a little more reserved and hissed and growled a bit even at 6' apart. So whenever they're out in the main part of the house they are supervised. No issues yet and Violet has essentially quit hissing and actually was play chasing Mila this morning. They touch noses, use each other's litter boxes, share each other's food. Eventually they will eat together and their litter boxes will be in one location. However, it's only been 5 days, so we're taking it slowly. They both have good appetites, use their litter boxes consistently, respond to their names, and are settling in well. After much research regarding food, we're going with Wellness Core "Fish & Fowl"-their new formula. They are taking to it well. So all in all a good fit so far.
I'll keep you posted.
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