You could be rotating your pelvis back, when you should be 'tucking in your tail' a bit on the bike... When I do that, I feel more comfortable and supported on the saddle.
I've found that Pearl Isumi shorts have rather wide (and thick) padding. If it works with your body, only you could say but it may be worth trying.
Tzvia- rollin' slow...
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