you said the chain really started having problems after you changed your back tube??
Forgive the duh question but are you sure your back tire is fully seated?? I was having major problems with shifting one day last winter - could NOT get the chain to shift or when it did it kept jumping the cogs. When I got home and looked at the rear cassette I noticed my back tire wasn't seated on the hub. Oops! Once I reseated the tire, my chain issues went away.
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand, strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming: "Yeah Baby! What a Ride!"