I live in NC (less than an hour from where this horrible accident happened), and the last I heard on the local news, the woman who was killed and her husband were avid cyclists, and she did everything right, like wearing a helmet, riding well to the right. etc. She was just in the wrong place at the wrong time.
The local news did an interview with her husband the day after she died, and he was very forgiving of the college student who killed her. He just seemed like a really nice, kind older man, quite calm and reflective. I can't imagine being so calm the day after my spouse was killed by a drunk driver. I'm not nearly as generous-spirited as he obviously is. I'm just plain pissed. 
Emily
Emily
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