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  1. #1
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    Talking Officially introducing myself

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    Hi ladies (and gentlemen),

    My name is Jamie and I figured I'd take a second and officially introduce myself. I posted a few days ago about hubby being mad at me for not riding....yep that's me...wheww will be wording my posts more carefully next time... No seriously I do not hold any ill feelings against anyone, life is way too short for that!! You guys just did what you thought you had to do. So here's the story: I am 31 and have been married to an Army (hence the new username) guy for 13 yrs. I am a SAHM and have three beautiful children one of which has his own road bike and unlike his mom has completed a race. (when we were stationed in Hawaii) Hubby rides a Serotta CSI and I ride a Steelman.
    I am extremely shy (almost hermitlike..lol) in person but quite chatty online. HOWEVER, I think you all got the wrong impression of our marriage..BELIEVE me I make my opinion very well known around here!! After 13 yrs we've learned to let the small stuff go...He was frustrated and so was I. I needed him to "feel" my pain and I felt like I needed him to hear another woman's opinion. You guys did that for me for the most part. When it comes to cycling I am totally green and do tend to lean on him for advice and kinda let him take over. Okay so that makes me a little bit of a pushover...BUT I am going to be more pro-active when it comes to the things I need and or want where cycling is concerned. I'll just have to live and learn/trial and error. I need to say THANKS to you all for the great advice and I hope to be posting here quite often.

    Jamie

  2. #2
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    Jul 2006
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    Riding my Luna & Rivendell in the Hudson Valley, NY
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    Hey WELCOME! I admire your spirit.
    Lisa
    My mountain dulcimer network...FOTMD.com...and my mountain dulcimer blog
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  3. #3
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    Apr 2006
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    Hey, Jamie...super glad you're here!
    "The best rides are the ones where you bite off much more than you can chew, and live through it." ~ Doug Bradbury

  4. #4
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    Welcome back! I'm glad we didn't scare you away.
    Everything in moderation, including moderation.

    2007 Rodriguez Adventure/B72
    2009 Masi Soulville Mixte/B18
    1997 Trek 820 Step-thru Xtracycle/B17

  5. #5
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    Jun 2002
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    Welcome to TE, Jamie (and Jamie spouse). Ooooooh a Steelman and a Serotta, sweet.

    Nice bikes!

    This truly is the very best place in cyberspace for women athletes (and sometimes their men-folk). You are very much welcome here and ...

    I think I speak for all of us please thank your DH for serving.
    Fancy Schmancy Custom Road bike ~ Mondonico Futura Legero
    Found on side of the road bike ~ Motobecane Mixte
    Gravel bike ~ Salsa Vaya
    Favorite bike ~ Soma Buena Vista mixte
    Folder ~ Brompton
    N+1 ~ My seat on the Rover recumbent tandem
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  6. #6
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    I'm the only one allowed to whine
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    Welcome! Glad to see you here!

    Yes, thank your DH for us. Many of us have loved ones in the military, and know how it is. There are a few men on TE who are in/were in the military, too.

    Now, come join the party!
    "If Americans want to live the American Dream, they should go to Denmark." - Richard Wilkinson

  7. #7
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    Feb 2006
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    WELCOME!! So glad we didn't scare you off! Please keep us posted as to how the saddle stuff works out.

  8. #8
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    Aug 2003
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    Hey, hey! Glad to see you back.

    Wow, I wish I could have started with a Steelman way back when. How'd you manage that?
    Frends know gud humors when dey is hear it. ~ Da Crockydiles of ZZE.

  9. #9
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    Between the Blue Ridge and the Chesapeake Bay
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    Nice to have you back; it takes courage to come back after that last broo-haha. How's the saddle search going?

  10. #10
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
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    Puget Sound area, Washington state
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    Welcome back, Jamie and, as another one who responded to your earlier post, I'm glad that you recognized that we each wanted to respond and help in our own way. I have found TE to be not only a caring, welcoming community, but a wealth of information for me too. Yes, there are a wide variety of personalities, opinions and experiences here, so hopefully that's what you'll find too. It's also a limitation of the written word sometimes that makes it difficult to understand and/or appreciate the different voices and expressions of so many, so I recommend that you assume the best that each one offers and not take offense. I know that I can try my best to write what I would better say in person, so that my communication has my inflections and feelings expressed more effectively, but I don't always hit the mark and then, need to rely on whomever is on the other end of the communication to ask me to explain better or differently or whatever, so that they understand my true meaning...nuff said...hope that you have mucho miles of happy riding ahead of you!
    Mary

  11. #11
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    MM_QFC, very well said. I'll have to remember that.
    Frends know gud humors when dey is hear it. ~ Da Crockydiles of ZZE.

  12. #12
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
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    Puget Sound area, Washington state
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    thanks, SK!

  13. #13
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    Dec 2006
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    Welcome Jamie. We're happy you're hear and I look forward to hearing stories of your rides... good and bad. There's nothing like the enthusiasm of a newbie to help us all get motivated.
    Living life like there's no tomorrow.

    http://gorgebikefitter.com/


    2007 Look Dura Ace
    2010 Custom Tonic cross with discs, SRAM
    2012 Moots YBB 2 x 10 Shimano XTR
    2014 Soma B-Side SS

  14. #14
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    Sep 2007
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    Uncanny Valley
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    Welcome Jamie!

    (and +1 to what MM said.)
    Speed comes from what you put behind you. - Judi Ketteler

  15. #15
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    Quote Originally Posted by KnottedYet View Post
    Welcome! Glad to see you here!

    Yes, thank your DH for us. Many of us have loved ones in the military, and know how it is. There are a few men on TE who are in/were in the military, too.
    And not just a few women!

    Karen

 

 

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