Try the Old Navy Weekender or Relaxed fit jeans. I had the same problem with "slim" fit jeans so I had to move into those. They're fitted in the waist then flare out - Slightly - over the hips and thighs and then snug back down at the ankles. They seem to fit both my quads and my calves. They're the only ones so far that also seem to fit snug in the waist.
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