Michelem,
After having just gone through the bike trying out thing for the past couple weekends, all I have to say is: hang in there and don't settle for what they want to sell you! I tried several bikes; didn't care for the Trek Madone 5.0, it just didn't feel right to me, neither did the Cannondale, nor the couple other something-or-others that I tried. The Felt wasn't all that bad and neither was the Ruby. Then I found two Giants. One was an OCR with a triple and aluminum, which I wasn't too keen on having decided before hand on a double and carbon. (If I was doing a ride where I needed the triple, I could always use my Dolce.) The second one was a TCRcw, compact cranks, Ultegra all the way, double and carbon. A few adjustments and off I went on a test ride...oops, needed another adjustment to the seat, but the LBS guy didn't mind at all. He even brought out the Felt and let me compare the two bikes. I know I put a couple miles on both bikes, feeling the brakes, running through the 10 speed cassette and such! I ended up with the Giant because it not only was the correct size, but it just felt right. It had the components I wanted, was well within my budget and the service after purchase is hard to beat. I was very pleased.
I hope you find what you are looking for soon. Good luck!
Four wheels move the body, two wheels move the soul.
2010 Kelson custom/Brooks B17 Imperial
2009 Masi/Terry Damselfly
2004 Specialized Dulce Elite/Terry Damselfly
2003 Gary Fisher Tassajara/unknown saddle
1987 Bridgestone 100/Terry Liberator X