Hi - I'm Back...With a Twist (LONG)!

emily_in_nc · 06-17-2006, 12:44 PM

Hi Ladies!

I am sure some of you will remember me and the tumultuous year I had last year.... fracturing my pelvis in April (dog accident while riding) and then losing my dad to a car accident in October. To say that 2005 was the most difficult year of my life is an understatement. I managed to go through the paces, not get fired from my job, nor divorced from my husband, but it has been hard. Lots of tears, lots of grieving, and lots of introspection.

One of the things in my world that took a big hit was my cycling. I was back to road riding last August after my accident, a bit fearfully and with some hip pain, but after my dad died, I just couldn't bring myself to get back on the bike. And as many of you know, the longer you stay off, the harder it is to get back on. I dreamed about riding, I thought about riding, but I just didn't want to be out on the roads with motorists and dogs. I still don't. I think losing my Dad (who drove a tiny little Honda Civic) to a driver in a huge, honking pickup truck reminded me of how very small and defenseless I was on my bicycle out amongst motor vehicles of all shapes and sizes, and how very lucky I've been over the years to ride thousands of miles without serious incident until my own accident (and that didn't even involve a motor vehicle, thank goodness!)

So, I hadn't ridden since October. My husband and I got into hiking and spent all winter and spring doing longer and longer hikes, around home and in the NC mountains, and culminating in a trip to the southwest US the first two weeks in May, where we hiked in 6 national parks, including a rim-to-river and back (in one day!) Grand Canyon hike of 18.2 miles. It was simply amazing, beautiful, and deeply fulfilling.

But I still missed cycling. Finally I could stand it no longer. I'd heard a gal at work talking about mountain biking on some local trails and wanting some companionship, so I raised my hand and joined her for the first time this past week. I had a BLAST! We started easy on packed gravel fire roads, no single-track for now (she can handle it, but I need to work up to it and get used to my MTB again), but I couldn't wipe the grin off my face the entire time I rode. It was slow and only about 8-10 miles, but I've been on a high ever since. And we've talked about making this a weekly thing, which I'd love.

Boy am I saddle sore! I had forgotten how well the body adapts to riding, and how hard it is to start again. But it's worth it!

So, for the first time since 2-22-2006, I am taking a peak into this forum, where I used to spend so much time. I have really missed you gals. I've been lurking a little in the "Mountain Biking" section and am planning on learning more. I have an inexpensive hardtail (REI Novara Bonita) that I like, but if I really get caught up in the bug, I may eventually go for a full-suspension. It's way, way too early to tell, but I think I may have just found the answer to how I can continue cycling but not ride in fear.

I might just have to become a dirt chick!

Anyway, that's all for now. Hope y'all have all been doing well and riding lots! I look forward to reading more and catching up.

Big hugs,

Emily

KnottedYet · 06-17-2006, 12:50 PM

Hooray! Welcome back!

DrBee · 06-17-2006, 12:54 PM

Good for you to overcome all of that and make it back onto the bike! Welcome back!

Surlygirl · 06-17-2006, 01:00 PM

Emily, wahoooooo. I've often thought of you and missed you on the board. Of course I remember you and I realize how hard it must have been for you. The board has gotten so much bigger since you were last here, but there are a few of us old timers still lurking here and lots of newbies.
Good luck on your rides. Glad to hear you are doing well. Now if we could just get Crystal back on her bike over at girlbike.com
Jody

Adventure Girl · 06-17-2006, 01:03 PM

It's really nice to see you back on the forum, Em! After your accident, I was so inspired by your struggle and return to cycling. But then you posted that your father had passed away and you were taking a break. I often wondered if you were riding at all.

Welcome back! Mountain biking is so different from road riding. It's good to hear that your enjoying yourself on 2 wheels again!

snapdragen · 06-17-2006, 01:16 PM

Welcome back!

DeniseGoldberg · 06-17-2006, 01:25 PM

Emily -
Welcome back - to both the forum and more importantly to cycling. It's funny, but I was just thinking about you and wondering how you were doing. And now we know!

--- Denise

RoadRaven · 06-17-2006, 01:34 PM

EMILY!!!!

Welcome home!!!

You had your crash soon after I joined, but I followed your posts and your recovery so closely and have missed your insiteful and funny and poignant words here...

Thrilled to hear you are back on the bike again... looking forward to seeing you about more often...

And you had a summer of hiking (in Middle Earth we call it tramping) with your man - how wonderful!!!

Ride strong Emily
~Rave~

mickchick · 06-17-2006, 02:21 PM

Wow, Emily, I was just thinking about this past week and was going to post, asking if anyone had heard from you. WELCOME BACK!!!

Blueberry · 06-17-2006, 02:41 PM

So glad to hear that you're doing well and back in the saddle!!!

Let me know if you ever want to get together and ride the gravel trails in Duke Forest (I won't venture onto single track, but think I could handle gravel

)

Carrie Anne

cindysue · 06-17-2006, 05:37 PM

it warmed my heart to read your story. Welcome back to TE and to getting back on a bike.

((((((((((((((((((hug)))))))))))))))))))))))

crazycanuck · 06-17-2006, 05:45 PM

Hey Emily,

Nice to see you back! Thanks for coming back and letting us know how things have gone for you.

Take care

c

caligurl · 06-17-2006, 06:53 PM

oh emily! WELCOME BACK! it's SO nice to see you on the forums and to see that you've been out on the bike!!!!!!

i've missed you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Trekhawk · 06-17-2006, 09:26 PM

Welcome back Emily. Mountain biking is so much fun. Glad you have found a way to bike and be happy.

Grog · 06-18-2006, 07:54 AM

Oh, Emily, I'm really glad to see you again on the forum.

I was thinking of you a lot recently. I don't usually see dogs on my ride but I'm on Vancouver Island for a month, riding in much more rural settings, and happen to see many more big dogs roaming free around their master's house.... or venture beyond it. Which reminds me that I should have a conversation with my partner about what to do if a dog jumps in front of us...

I'm really happy you're back on a bike (any bike) and having fun. I was worried that maybe you had stopped riding for ever. I'm glad you're enjoying this!

06-17-2006, 12:44 PM	#1
emily_in_nc Boston Terriers rule! Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Land of the Elves Posts: 2,853	Hi - I'm Back...With a Twist (LONG)! Hi Ladies! I am sure some of you will remember me and the tumultuous year I had last year.... fracturing my pelvis in April (dog accident while riding) and then losing my dad to a car accident in October. To say that 2005 was the most difficult year of my life is an understatement. I managed to go through the paces, not get fired from my job, nor divorced from my husband, but it has been hard. Lots of tears, lots of grieving, and lots of introspection. One of the things in my world that took a big hit was my cycling. I was back to road riding last August after my accident, a bit fearfully and with some hip pain, but after my dad died, I just couldn't bring myself to get back on the bike. And as many of you know, the longer you stay off, the harder it is to get back on. I dreamed about riding, I thought about riding, but I just didn't want to be out on the roads with motorists and dogs. I still don't. I think losing my Dad (who drove a tiny little Honda Civic) to a driver in a huge, honking pickup truck reminded me of how very small and defenseless I was on my bicycle out amongst motor vehicles of all shapes and sizes, and how very lucky I've been over the years to ride thousands of miles without serious incident until my own accident (and that didn't even involve a motor vehicle, thank goodness!) So, I hadn't ridden since October. My husband and I got into hiking and spent all winter and spring doing longer and longer hikes, around home and in the NC mountains, and culminating in a trip to the southwest US the first two weeks in May, where we hiked in 6 national parks, including a rim-to-river and back (in one day!) Grand Canyon hike of 18.2 miles. It was simply amazing, beautiful, and deeply fulfilling. But I still missed cycling. Finally I could stand it no longer. I'd heard a gal at work talking about mountain biking on some local trails and wanting some companionship, so I raised my hand and joined her for the first time this past week. I had a BLAST! We started easy on packed gravel fire roads, no single-track for now (she can handle it, but I need to work up to it and get used to my MTB again), but I couldn't wipe the grin off my face the entire time I rode. It was slow and only about 8-10 miles, but I've been on a high ever since. And we've talked about making this a weekly thing, which I'd love. Boy am I saddle sore! I had forgotten how well the body adapts to riding, and how hard it is to start again. But it's worth it! So, for the first time since 2-22-2006, I am taking a peak into this forum, where I used to spend so much time. I have really missed you gals. I've been lurking a little in the "Mountain Biking" section and am planning on learning more. I have an inexpensive hardtail (REI Novara Bonita) that I like, but if I really get caught up in the bug, I may eventually go for a full-suspension. It's way, way too early to tell, but I think I may have just found the answer to how I can continue cycling but not ride in fear. I might just have to become a dirt chick! Anyway, that's all for now. Hope y'all have all been doing well and riding lots! I look forward to reading more and catching up. Big hugs, Emily

06-17-2006, 12:50 PM	#2
KnottedYet Me on my Downtube folder Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Mrs. Trek420 Posts: 8,776	Hooray! Welcome back! __________________ "The thug is aware that loudness convinces sixty persons where reasoning convinces but one." Mark Twain

06-17-2006, 01:16 PM	#6
snapdragen Zipper Neck Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Sillycon Valley, California Posts: 4,129	Welcome back! __________________ I have flying monkeys at my command, and I'm not afraid to use them. http://pages.teamintraining.org/sj/AveGiant10/jlemon

06-17-2006, 01:25 PM	#7
DeniseGoldberg Live your dreams... Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: North Andover, Massachusetts USA Posts: 1,646	Emily - Welcome back - to both the forum and more importantly to cycling. It's funny, but I was just thinking about you and wondering how you were doing. And now we know! --- Denise __________________ www.denisegoldberg.com Click here for links to journals and photo galleries from my travels on two wheels and two feet. Random thoughts and experiences in my blog at denisegoldberg.blogspot.com "To truly find yourself you should play hide and seek alone." (quote courtesy of an unknown fortune cookie writer)

06-17-2006, 01:34 PM	#8
RoadRaven TimeTrial Wannabe Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Middle Earth Posts: 4,001	EMILY!!!! Welcome home!!! You had your crash soon after I joined, but I followed your posts and your recovery so closely and have missed your insiteful and funny and poignant words here... Thrilled to hear you are back on the bike again... looking forward to seeing you about more often... And you had a summer of hiking (in Middle Earth we call it tramping) with your man - how wonderful!!! Ride strong Emily ~Rave~ __________________ Courage does not always roar. Sometimes, it is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow".

06-17-2006, 12:54 PM	#3
DrBee Fish is now a Bee Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: The Red Stick Posts: 1,440	Good for you to overcome all of that and make it back onto the bike! Welcome back!

06-17-2006, 01:00 PM	#4
Surlygirl Registered User Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 726	Emily, wahoooooo. I've often thought of you and missed you on the board. Of course I remember you and I realize how hard it must have been for you. The board has gotten so much bigger since you were last here, but there are a few of us old timers still lurking here and lots of newbies. Good luck on your rides. Glad to hear you are doing well. Now if we could just get Crystal back on her bike over at girlbike.com Jody

06-17-2006, 01:03 PM	#5
Adventure Girl Problem Child Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Sunny California Posts: 1,076	It's really nice to see you back on the forum, Em! After your accident, I was so inspired by your struggle and return to cycling. But then you posted that your father had passed away and you were taking a break. I often wondered if you were riding at all. Welcome back! Mountain biking is so different from road riding. It's good to hear that your enjoying yourself on 2 wheels again!

06-17-2006, 02:21 PM	#9
mickchick Velobambina Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 1,354	Wow, Emily, I was just thinking about this past week and was going to post, asking if anyone had heard from you. WELCOME BACK!!!

06-17-2006, 02:41 PM	#10
Blueberry CA_in_NC Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: The Dark Side of the Moon Posts: 2,638	Welcome Back Emily!!!! So glad to hear that you're doing well and back in the saddle!!! Let me know if you ever want to get together and ride the gravel trails in Duke Forest (I won't venture onto single track, but think I could handle gravel ) Carrie Anne __________________ There's still so much to be done... -- JB

06-17-2006, 05:37 PM	#11
cindysue Bring it on! Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: CA Posts: 1,000	it warmed my heart to read your story. Welcome back to TE and to getting back on a bike. ((((((((((((((((((hug))))))))))))))))))))))) __________________ Cheers! Cindy Team Luna Chix

06-17-2006, 05:45 PM	#12
crazycanuck Wahoo!!!!! Summer!!! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,552	HEllo!!! Hey Emily, Nice to see you back! Thanks for coming back and letting us know how things have gone for you. Take care c

06-17-2006, 06:53 PM	#13
caligurl YIKES! i'm a durt gurl Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: socal Posts: 1,852	oh emily! WELCOME BACK! it's SO nice to see you on the forums and to see that you've been out on the bike!!!!!! i've missed you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

06-17-2006, 09:26 PM	#14
Trekhawk Honky Nut Dodger Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: WA, Australia Posts: 3,180	Welcome back Emily. Mountain biking is so much fun. Glad you have found a way to bike and be happy. __________________ The most effective way to do it, is to do it. Amelia Earhart

06-18-2006, 07:54 AM	#15
Grog Northern Amazon Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 3,557	Oh, Emily, I'm really glad to see you again on the forum. I was thinking of you a lot recently. I don't usually see dogs on my ride but I'm on Vancouver Island for a month, riding in much more rural settings, and happen to see many more big dogs roaming free around their master's house.... or venture beyond it. Which reminds me that I should have a conversation with my partner about what to do if a dog jumps in front of us... I'm really happy you're back on a bike (any bike) and having fun. I was worried that maybe you had stopped riding for ever. I'm glad you're enjoying this!

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