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It is interesting we all seem to have similar lives yet very different. i have been with Dh for going on 22 years. and sometimes I really can't wait for him to have to go on a job without me. And we are with eachother 24-7. We also work together and own a business together. We have had times that were very rocky. Maybe more then other's since we are around eachother so much. But like what everyone else has said it does pass. And I can not imagine my life without him, even though there are times I do. They are much less then then wanting him with me. And when he does have to go on a job by himself, when he is getting ready to leave a feel a real sence of loss and saddness. Then I get over it and eat what I want, and watch what I want on tv, and go to bed when I want. Then after a few days I am ready to have him back. Hey maybe you should take a little vacation with a friend or by yourself. Maybe the seperation would make your heart (and his) grow fonder. My dh has to be reminded that I need him to want me. Guys (and girls) can take eachother for granted a lot and then we become resentful.
I don't think I have said anything different here then anyone else. But I hope it helps some.
And yes I have thought of driving off that cliff too. But I am gald that is all it is a thought.
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02-26-2009, 04:00 PM #61
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02-28-2009, 07:34 AM #62
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02-28-2009, 08:00 AM #63
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02-28-2009, 12:53 PM #64
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I had a teacher in high school that suggested that eventually everyone will see a counselor. I always remembered that and later in my life I came to a point that I needed to see one. Among other things, my body was going cuckoo with PMDD and it was affecting my mental health in a BAD way. It was the best money spent and I looked at it as an investment in my health. I hope you find that it is as helpful for you. Sending you a big, gentle hug.
